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after marriage should a good wife put out on demand? Is it rude in marriage to turn you partner down for sex?

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1. No of course not , it has to be a mutual thing.....
2. Yes, this is very rude and the person will find someone else to put out if you don't.
3. it depends on the situation really. but honestly wtf i thought she wud wanna put out a lot
4. well you shouldn't expect her to "put out" on demand, that would be rude of you. But at the same time, she should be willing most of the time.
5. IF you were any good at it you wouldn't have to demand it. No wife should have to endure a crappy sex partner so why don't you try talking to her.
6. Hell yeah that's rude, tell that little sl*t to give it up!!!!!
7. no she shouldn't and neither should a man. I mean there will be times when you should compromise, if you really didn't want to but she dose maybe you should so that next time you want it and she wasn't thinking about it, she will
8. Just because you are in the mood doesn't mean the "good wife" is!
9. A good man never demands, and why would a good woman be married to a man bad enough to demand things from her?
10. Dude after 7 years, Im lucky if I get it twice a week. You cant EXPECT each other, or require each other to do anything for the other! A marriage in wich either or both parties demand things of each other, sexual or otherwise, wont last. When I am exhausted at the end of the day, she understands, as best she can. When she is in a crappy mood because somebody cut her off on the freeway, I understand as best I can!
11. Turning down sex is as rude as someone eating when they are not hungry. Meaning when she fixes dinner no matter what time it is or how full you are you better eat every last drop on the plate. a Marriage is a partnership look up the word!
12. Gotta do what ya gotta do. It happens everyday, welcome to marriage. Ask yourself what are you doing for her to do this.
13. No you should respect your wife and make her comfortable. You will get much more out of her. It is a marriage you need to think about the other person more than yourself.
14. Lesson #1 First off buddy, she isn't a dog so you do not demand anything from her Lesson#2 If for instance your partner is ill then refusing sex is perfectly normal and any man with half a brain would not expect to get laid while wifey is ill Lesson#3 If you partner is withholding sex on a continuous basis without reason such as illness then it is considered emotional abuse. Lesson#4 When a partener is refusing sex without reason it is because they have lost all sexual interest in thier partner and it is thier way of saying I want out.
15. Your wife is not a sex toy to put out on demand. What nonsense and if you do not stop you are not going to be married for very long. Juat because you are married does NOT mean you wife must submit your every sexual demand regardless of her own feelings. IF you try to stop being so selfish and try doing things that she likes she will want to have sex with you. No one performs well under pressure and if you keep it up she will grow to resent and then hate you and you won't get any sex at all. Wise up buddy, no woman wants to think that all you want is what is between her legs.
16. A good wife never 'puts out' on demand. It is rude in marriage to demand such. A wife makes love when a husband shows her love and affection. There is something wrong within your marriage. And it has to do with both of you. Marriage is a partnership. It's supposed to be of benefit and pleasure for both partners........♥♥
17. only if a good husband shuts up and listens
18. There is really two reasons for a woman to deny her husband sex and that is if she is on her cycle or if she is sick. So I say yes it is rude. I am so glad both me and my husband love sex. And we both agree when the other needs it, we satisfy the other. And if I can't because of my cycle or something else, we help the other release by other means:-) And this has worked for the past 12 years and we are both happy with it, But marriage is different for each couple and they have to find what works for both.
19. Sex is supposed to be a mutual expression of love. Many people approach sex the same way they do computer games, and are just as addicted to it. If your sex requirements are so out of line with your mate's, then do her a favor and divorce her and find someone who can keep you spent. You will be doing her a favor, trust me. IMHO, no one should have to submit to sex on demand. When it comes to this, we are no longer talking about a mutual expression of love, but forcing someone to become a receptacle.